Who are you? When attempting to find this answer, maybe these quotes can help offer guidance.
“Whenever two people meet there are really six people present. There is each man as he sees himself, each man as the other person sees him and each man as he really is.” William James quotes (American Philosopher and Psychologist, leader of the philosophical movement of Pragmatism, 1842-1910)
“A man is like a novel: until the very last page you don’t know how it will end. Otherwise it wouldn’t be worth reading.” Yevgeny Zamyatin (Russian novelist, playwright, and satirist, 1884-1937)
“My importance to the world is relatively small. On the other hand, my importance to myself is tremendous. I am all I have to work with, to play with, to suffer and to enjoy. It is not the eyes of others that I am wary of, but of my own. I do not intend to let myself down more than I can possibly help, and I find that the fewer illusions I have about myself or the world around me, the better company I am for myself.” Noel Coward
“If I try to be like him, who will be like me?” (Yiddish proverb)
“I don’t know who my grandfather was; I am much more concerned to know what his grandson will be.” Abraham Lincoln quotes (American 16th US President)